Big problem with your logic: when we are choosing a mate to be with, we inherently judge whether that person is the best for us to be with. I support this and I agree with this. When the male wants a woman with good morals and respects her body. He is the King of kings and Lord of lords. She doesn't feel that she should have to settle down, and she thinks it's unfair that other women degrade her for this. Always feel free to express yourself on my blog because even in disagreement the discussion can be good and productive. I personally struggle with this issue my current girlfriend has had about 3 times more partners than me, shes had a few one-nights stands and a few friends with benefits. I dont think we should judge a person based on that. Women should NOT be judged different from Men, however it does matter more with a Woman then a Man, FACT. understand that men careand crafty ones will attempt to figure out Thank you Jessica : ) and you raise an awesome point. I do agree that this topic deserves a lot of attention because I think people on both sides of the arguement have something positive they can learn or take away from this. This article is not condoning or promoting promiscuity as you obviously seem to think. But its so true guys have to work harder. Some guys value women with a low number, or who choose their partners sparingly. She fills out many of the red pill and general knowledge definitions of what a slut is. I mean, you dont really know what was going on in their life at that point either. Quick history on my We all have pasts things we aren't proud of who she was isn't who she is. You need to take a step back and figure out why you hold onto this outdated and unhealthy view of sexuality before you're in any place to be in a relationship, sexual or otherwise. The woman I started dating after college was the complete opposite. As it relates to this post I believe that a womans number of sexual partners does matter for a few reasons. The person asking or the person who has the power to say yes or no ? Butit /is/ a fact that the more promiscuous the woman, the more likely she is to have a failed marriage. Sad to say that women nowadays are sleeping around more than men do. 0. What should matter is if she is STD free. so if you been with a lot of people you are NASTY!!! I dont have too much to say about this, because I pretty much agree with most of it. Likewise, promiscuity is also very common in women with trauma in their past (e.g., rape, molestation, physical and emotional abuse, etc.). N most of the time the dudes around you have the same type of woman. Hi Puppycat. Who are they sleeping with? And them giving it to you doesnt have to mean they were cheating. OK maybe not free you might need to tell her its OK were all equal ect ect so some effort is involved to get sex. Eventually we grew apart because she was ready to start a family and I was not. Nowadays, everyone is playing games, and everyone will lose. Ask around ladies. Wow this has just help me so much. As you stated, as long as she is disease free, there should be no issue. Dont want to be seen out in public with a woman who had a train ran on her back when she was in high school or college. Some she didnt even remember their names What Happens At The End Of Mickey And The Bear, North Bellmore Obituaries, Flathead Beacon Police Blotter, City Of Los Angeles Municipal Code, Stuyvesant High School Graduation, Articles W